All details about first intercourse

First sexual intercourse – the process is exciting for men and women. So it was at all times. However, the attitude to virginity in different countries and different ages were different. One nation gave my virginity mystical significance (only virgins were priests or keepers of the cult of the gods). In other countries, the innocence was a sort of "quality assurance". Somewhere the innocence meant shame (the signal that a guy or a girl not popular with the opposite sex).

In modern times to virginity are easier. It does not attach much social value you guys and girls to decide when they'll have sexual intercourse. However, this led to the fact that young people are confused, they have questions, the answers to which they must find themselves.

In this article, we have collected common questions about first sex, its meaning for men and women. The answers will give the experts – psychologists, therapists, gynecologists, urologists, sexologists. You will learn how long sexual intercourse for the first time, which position is better suited, how many boys and girls experience the pleasure of first sex, can you get pregnant.

The answers to the main questions

• Always blood?

According to surveys of gynecologists in women only in 7 cases out of 10 during their first sexual intercourse formed spotting. Moreover, 15% of girls breaking the hymen occurs before the first sexual intercourse. This can happen due to excessive physical exertion (when given to the child in sports section) or when a teenage girl is in her menstrual period starts to use the wrong tampons. If you still hymen intact, how the blood stands out? Often a few drops. Very rare in girls is severe bleeding.

• She always has pain?

No. The main condition – sex should be preceded by pretreatment to both the man and the girl have reached a high level of excitement. Only because of the excitement partners arousal a woman can not achieve. Come to the aid of artificial lubrication – lubricants sold in pharmacies. How many lubricants are? About 200-300 rubles – an acceptable price, so buy lubrication everyone can.

• You can externally define a virgin?

Psychologists assure that there are no visible signs of innocence of the partner. If the girl does not stand out of the blood after the first intercourse, a man may not be aware of her innocence. In some cases, girls are ashamed to admit virginity, they say that the blood appeared due to the beginning of the period (which, incidentally, is true). So if a man or woman does not want to admit to inexperience, being confident and bold in action, theywill not be able to give.